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Have To vs. Get To

Posted by admin on August 30, 2009
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The following Post is from my bride of nearly 25 years, Lisa Cool (she is one smart lady).

Three Little Words

Months ago while taking a yoga class, my instructor gave us a little challenge. She suggested we change the β€œ I have to” language in our lives into β€œ I get to.” This little mind shift really impacted my perspective on many fronts and transformed my attitude; especially with all the mundane tasks I do on a regular basis. For example, as I turned the thought of I have to do the dishes into I get to do the dishes, I was immediately grateful that we had food and a sink where I could wash the dishes. When I thought of getting to do the laundry instead of having to do the laundry, I was reminded of the blessing to have clothes to wash and machines that work. I could go on and on, but I know you already grasp what I am saying! I even used this mind shift with my kids as they complained of homework. I explained that they get to do homework which meant they are able to attend school which would be a luxury for many kids in this world.

Regardless of where you are in life, there is always room for more gratitude and these three simple words have helped me change perspective and feel a greater sense of gratitude for all the things in life I get to do! I hope these three little words help you as well!

Lisa Cool
Personal and Executive Coach
lcool@forcemanagement.com

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3 Comments


  1. Irene

    This makes so much sense and is SO true! Sometimes I need someone to tap me on the shoulder and point out the obvious. Thank you Lisa. God sent me this message through you today! I appreciate it.

    August 30th, 2009 at 3:03 pm


  2. Wayne Eriksen

    What a great reminder that we are blessed beyond measure. Thank you Lisa for reminding us of God’s grace and provision.

    August 31st, 2009 at 7:42 am


  3. Skip Knauff

    thanks for the V 8 moment.

    August 31st, 2009 at 4:30 pm

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